Also, consider yourself warned -- there are graphic images below, tho I blocked out the worst of it.
It wasn't even really the fall that got her (tho yea she was a bit bruised and battered) -- honestly not really the worst fall by any measure. More than likely would have been perfectly fine to hop back on and continue the lesson. Except, the horse fucking stepped on her. While wearing studs.
it wasn't really the fall that got her anyway |
Luckily that doesn't seem to be the case for my friend - she has some strange kind of luck in that, aside from the (massive) wound, it looks like her foot is going to be A-Ok.
horse people are so crazy, my friend was SO EXCITED to see this slo mo gif haha.... |
My friend also said that even as she was just beginning her lesson, there were two different instances of rider falls and loose horses on the schooling grounds....
i'm sparing you the gif of her tendons visibly moving around while she wiggles her toes.... hard to believe, but none of the underlying structures were seriously damaged. just one helluva gash... |
She is an accomplished horsewoman with a well schooled and talented horse. She was using appropriate safety equipment. She was riding at a well-kept, well-designed schooling facility (Windurra), with an extremely respected and experienced 5* rider as her coach. Working on appropriate schooling exercises.
Like.... What more does the universe want?!? But all it takes is one moment. One iffy distance, one zig from the horse and zag from the rider, and one unfathomably unfortunate footfall. Then boom, stud to the foot.
stitches kept to a minimum so it could drain. also note the bruising a bit higher on her calf where the other stud dragged across her leg, luckily without ripping through the boot! |
But we as riders just don't think about it, I guess, or just don't let those thoughts crowd into our minds. Bc lord knows it's hard enough to keep our nerve and mentality without dwelling on all the potential disasters that can happen. That hammer that could fall at any time.
The best we can do is make good choices, ya know? Prepare accordingly -- through our practice, schooling, use of equipment, etc. Put ourselves in situations where we are likeliest to be successful, and at least have our bases covered if something does go wrong.
But then... ya know, we honestly are only ever just hoping for the best with horses. Trying our hardest and hoping it's enough. And also hopefully enjoying each and every good moment along the way too, haha. Because without that, what's even the point?
Like my friend above, who at least has the memories of what had otherwise been an awesome cross country lesson, right up until that one bad moment. And is already plotting her revenge on that damn bank/skinny bounce question haha. You'll get it next time, girl!!
And in the meantime we'll be over here doing everything we can to help our crippled friend out haha, esp with getting around Kentucky (talk about shitty timing...). Bc damn, being injured is the absolute pits. As always tho, at least it wasn't worse! It's a strange kind of luck....
Ouch. Healing thoughts for your friend
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DeleteOmg I didn't think about how she'd get around KY! Eek! 😰
ReplyDeleteLol I told her we’d carry her around like the baby from hangover if it came to that ;)
DeleteOw. That looks painful! And hard to have it heal because of walking, etc. I hope she heal quickly. Honestly, there is no end to the ways horses and their people can get hurt.
ReplyDeleteSo far she hasn’t been walking on it so that will hopefully give it a head start on healing. We will see how she does around the horse park tho... and yea agreed that it’s amazing all the crazy ways we get injured with these animals ....
DeleteOh My Goodness... I'm glad she's okay but WOW
ReplyDeleteUgh I know right ?!?
DeleteWow - Glad to hear a few stitches were all that was required. Hope she is back to riding soon! And you are right, we can injure ourselves so easily - apparently even standing on ice checking on a horse is risky, if you are me! lol
ReplyDeleteSadly I think that’s just part of getting older and part of spending so much time with the horses .... it’s inevitable that something will happen at sometime...
DeleteHaving done Kentucky on crutches I would recommend she reach out and see if they can get her the disability access. I ended up with great parking, access to the golf cart shuttles and there are special course walks for people with mobility issues where they will drive you around to some of the highlights.
ReplyDeletethat's good to know, thanks. the wheels were already in motion for parking passes etc, but we didn't know about the shuttles for course walks and stuff! she's honestly hoping to be more or less back on her feet but..... obvi the rest of us are feeling a little more cautious abou that haha!
DeleteDUDE. What a gnarly gash! Absolutely nuts. And LOL about the first responders knowing they better try with the boots before whipping out trauma shears.
ReplyDeleteomg right?!? apparently they have our eventing season marked on the calendars bc they get SO MANY CALLS from windurra haha. which like, i guess it makes sense now that i think about it, but it had never crossed my mind before...
DeleteOUCH that sucks. I hope she heals fast. AND hope to see you in KY (Fingers crossed no news on truck yet)!
ReplyDeletePS sally's head tilt I know so well as you friend had her fall...I am glad she was teaching her that day! :)
Deletei hope to see you in Kentucky too!!! but yea, the injury really sucks. like obviously we're all grateful it wasn't worse, but sheesh!! and yea lol Sally was right up in there doing her coaching thang! she was apparently so so so nice in dealing with the aftermath and helping everyone get situated. it's nice to have that sort of experience on hand in a crisis!
DeleteThat looks painful! But I gotta admit I laughed that the paramedics totally knew DO NOT CUT THE BOOT lolololol. It looks like she'll heal well - a pretty clean cut, but hopefully she'll get around KY okay! Talk about REALLY shitty timing....
ReplyDeletehaha she was also super worried about her new breeches too, but luckily no garments were destroyed beyond whatever damage happened in the fall! actually she's thinking even the boot might be salvageable, tho i'm less sure haha
Deletethis is so impressive and metal. you guys should see if she can get one of those off road segways like what michael jung had when his ankle was broken :P :P
ReplyDeleteomggggggg that would be incredible haha! right now she's using that little knee scooter dealio that i had when i broke my leg, and is thinking about bringing that to KY but idk if i trust that thing on down hills, and it seems kinda exhausting to push it UP, so we will see! something motorized would obvi be ideal LOL
DeleteI am really laughing thinking of her trying to roll the knee scooter off road. and losing it going down a hill. perhaps into the head of the lake.
Deletehaha yea.... it's come up once or twice in conversation lol.. tho for her sake hopefully there are no more crashes!
DeleteDamn, that looks terrible!
ReplyDeleteThank god they didn't cut her boot.....but is it even salvageable after that?!
honestly she's hoping the boot can be saved, i think it all depends on what sort of machines they have to get in there and repair the panel
DeleteI had to skip to the bottom because it was a bit gross - but consider myself warned, your poor friend :(
ReplyDeleteugh right? super gross and that's not even the worst of it...
DeleteOh that's gnarly! She's really lucky to not have any tissue damage (other than skin)! Glad she's ok, and I hope you can schlep her around KY pretty easily!
ReplyDeletei can't believe how lucky she got! i guess there's still some risk that a tendon might be injured or something, it's hard to tell when everything is so puffy and traumatized. but generally she's expecting to heal more or less ok, which is kinda even more crazy to me LOL
Deleteyuck.
ReplyDeleteWe are crazy
tell me about it, haha
Deleteholy shit.
ReplyDeletethat's INSANITY. i'm so glad she is mostly ok and there doesn't seem to be any lasting damage. holy crow.
right???? i couldn't believe it either, and yet, here she is already testing out walking on it less than a week later.... i guess it's always just a roll of the dice with how serious something ends up being?!
DeleteOw, ow, ow. That's gnarly. I'm glad she wasn't hurt worse, but that's still so scary. I recently had a friend take a very minor fall on her way back to the trailer after a GREAT ride. She thought she was fine at first. Turns out she had ruptured her spleen and was basically bleeding out. Thankfully she went to the ER just to get checked out and they caught it and rushed her into life saving surgery just in time!! She wasn't doing anything crazy. Just moseying back on a loose rein on a broke horse at a park she rides in all the freaking time. I spend a lot of time talking to my students about the risk:benefit ratio and how the line varies from person to person. Any ride could literally be the last thing you do so you better be enjoying the journey along the way!!
ReplyDeleteoh god, that story of your friend is the stuff of nightmares, thank GOD she decided to get checked out "just in case." there's such a pervasive mentality of toughness among equestrians, bc let's be real: we ARE tough. but like, sometimes i worry that it goes too far, that people shrug off serious health or wellness concerns bc the George Morrises of the world say you either get in an ambulance or get back on, or whatever. then again, tho, denial is a strong drug when it comes to injuries haha, and there i was walking my own self around the urgent care clinic instead of using a wheelchair bc i refused to believe my leg would actually be broken....
Deleteanyway tho, your last point is so so key. we've gotta enjoy it. gotta love every moment of it, and really reach for those feelings of joy and happiness. bc sometimes shit happens, and without the fun it's really just not worth the risk....
DAAAYUM that's disgusting! I'm so glad she wasn't hurt worse!
ReplyDeleteyou and me both, tho! it was seriously nasty :(
DeleteOuch. That looks nasty, I’m glad she just needed stitches.
ReplyDeleteI took a straight forward tumble at the end of a great session at the end of November and managed to land in such a way that I broke my left femur in 2 places. Didn’t bump my head, nothing else injured. My guy did nothing wrong, just crap happens with horses.
ooohhhhhh noooooo, ugh that is AWFUL :( i'm so so sorry to hear that, and hope you've recovered reasonably well since then. my own leg break was basically as simple and straight forward as those injuries come, but recovery was still such a slog, ugh. but you're absolutely right, sometimes things just happen for no real reason. crazy horses, and crazy us too, i suppose
DeleteYikes!! What bad luck!!
ReplyDeleteYes horse people are crazy, but if you follow hockey I think they're worse! After getting there teeth knocked out a few times they just give up on replacing them!
Oh goodness, that's awful! Best wishes to her, hope she's back in the saddle soon - that had to hurt!
ReplyDeleteI'm definitely one of those people who would be overjoyed to see the gruesome gifs of my own accident. Interesting how little we think about the freak accidents until they happen.
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