tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post6573604708654075431..comments2024-03-29T03:40:51.461-07:00Comments on 'Fraidy Cat Eventing: fine i'll do it myselfemmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05686949099663199382noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-52643852546264583792021-09-28T10:40:02.724-07:002021-09-28T10:40:02.724-07:00I just went ahead and started making changes, but ...I just went ahead and started making changes, but I went along for several happy years pondering what I really wanted. I like your mindset of taking ownership what you can and not getting too worried abut the rest.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05438372155463437107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-86560058047853376282021-09-27T10:31:45.485-07:002021-09-27T10:31:45.485-07:00Ugh sorry things are in flux, nothing is more frus...Ugh sorry things are in flux, nothing is more frustrating than things outside of our control messing with possible plans, scenarios A-G. I'm glad that Charles is still right there with you though, and I know at the end of the day his love for you won't change regardless of what ends up happening. Like I thought last year was a weird year, but this year feels almost weirder.L.Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05052638724440787772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-26218690459099753082021-09-27T09:45:35.597-07:002021-09-27T09:45:35.597-07:00ugh yea exactly. the 'status quo' is proba...ugh yea exactly. the 'status quo' is probably going to remain as is for the foreseeable future bc i have some pretty specific ideas about what the next step should look like, and don't really want to substitute one mediocre fit for another. esp bc.... yea charlie's pretty happy with his life right now and a happy charlie is a fun charlie lol <3emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05686949099663199382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-43987194108493997562021-09-27T09:43:42.117-07:002021-09-27T09:43:42.117-07:00charlie is the most fun, i feel so lucky to have h...charlie is the most fun, i feel so lucky to have him!! and thanks, hopefully we have lots of fun things to look forward to too ;) emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05686949099663199382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-44718996121337575862021-09-27T09:43:16.495-07:002021-09-27T09:43:16.495-07:00ha me too lolha me too lolemmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05686949099663199382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-13954576548665467932021-09-27T08:48:26.320-07:002021-09-27T08:48:26.320-07:00Horse changes are especially stressful and I can c...Horse changes are especially stressful and I can completely relate to maybe accepting the status quo since it's not exactly broken, just not ideal. You'll know when the right situation presents itself though. In the meantime, it looks and sounds like you and Charlie are having a great time together, and really, isn't that why we do this?Stacie Seidmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11421021003654717894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-75009129823244362432021-09-25T19:40:31.767-07:002021-09-25T19:40:31.767-07:00Gosh, he looks like such a fun ride! I hope you ca...Gosh, he looks like such a fun ride! I hope you can figure out lessons that work for you. Making big decisions is so hard! I love your blog so I’m looking forward to reading along. Go, Charlie!Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13458834691170821210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-35567567074631126012021-09-25T18:39:48.682-07:002021-09-25T18:39:48.682-07:00Sounds like some big choices coming up! Excited t...Sounds like some big choices coming up! Excited to see what you decideJessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09066327510880156537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-60766151424352276972021-09-25T16:14:28.316-07:002021-09-25T16:14:28.316-07:00thanks! yea it's definitely one of those times...thanks! yea it's definitely one of those times where we could decide to .... really completely change everything haha. or, ya know, we could kinda just keep cruising as we are. which i guess will be our de facto choice up until something changes??? lol....emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05686949099663199382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-932439930694780998.post-61575714430430575062021-09-25T11:49:22.196-07:002021-09-25T11:49:22.196-07:00You guys look great. I’ve been where you are abou...You guys look great. I’ve been where you are about wanting a change but needing to really think about it because it’s not like things are terrible. It’s what lead me to my own place - which is huge. But also to switch to Jane and thst is not so big but still impactful. I have confidence that you’ll figure it out. TeresaAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05311118900077951863noreply@blogger.com