1) Get out and do the things I love doing! But,
2) In such a way as to help Doozy be a little more successful.
At the end of the day, whether you view it as drawing the ‘short stick’ or a ‘winning ticket,’ Doozy’s lot in life is with me. So. We persist lol.
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the weird semi-feral barn cats stalked around wondering what i was doing at the barn so early lol |
Anyway, tho, that had been a great day for us to just get out and go through the motions at a big venue but without the BIG atmosphere. And this weekend proved to be more of the same! Sure, there were probably somewhere between 60-80 horses onsite by the time we left, but with our early times (by design!) we were just the third trailer to arrive and shared the giant warm up with maybe 3-4 horses.
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my unsuspecting victim, enjoying the good grass from all the rain this spring! |
- Coaching might realistically prevent me from sliding into survival mode, while also keeping me more effective and timely in my approach and application.
- Also, it’d be a good opportunity for her to see what changes vs what stays the same for us in a show environment.
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finally replaced the little pop-in fender lights on my trailer! it felt so naked before lol |
For as much as I call her a crazy pants psycho… She is NOT mean, and NOT disinclined to… do the things, per se. She just… wants to do everything as fast as possible lol, nbd.
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waiting for woodge in the drizzle (i feel like that sounds like some sort of weird slang phrase my 13yo nephew would say LOL) |
dressage video: hilariously (and accurately) complete with real time coaching commentary for all of our reviewing pleasure
(and no, i wasn’t wearing ear buds, it was just for future study purposes lol)
This test was far from our best, and not quite as good as our warm up. Tho, the warm up itself wasn’t our best either. But also far from our worst. It’s all about perspective, y’all. Media is super limited, tho, so I’m plopping the video up first bc we got bare bones from show jumping.
So go ahead and watch, and draw your own conclusions, and also maybe have a giggle or two at the video commentary — which basically is exactly how the lessons go.
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pictured: a rare shot of us *NOT* cantering during our test |
I think there’s still room to optimize the approach to prioritize relaxation… But let’s be real, that’s the holy grail today, tomorrow, next week, next year, forever with this mare. She was not relaxed in the warm up, but we did have a few really solid moments, it got better as we went, and the coaching helped me figure out some better techniques for physically guiding Doozy into balance vs just spooling out.
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ok at least we are cantering on purpose here |
Doozy definitely got a bit away from me in the test itself, and slipped into unintentional canter at least 2-3 times. Then, somewhat hilariously, almost missed our first proper canter depart, on her good lead at that LOL. We got it tho, just in time.
Down transitions were, uh, slow to develop — at one point we literally went nearly from canter to free walk, tho natch in free walk I always try to make it a big point to chuck the reins at the mare like, “Look I swear! I can let go, she can walk” lol.
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the real-time coaching voice over in the video is priceless, not gonna lie |
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cantering on purpose again! hilarious in the video when she’s like, “oh that was an ok transition! don’t get too excited tho!” lololololol |
Next up: show jumping! We had about an hour’s wait before our height class went, so we just chilled out at the trailer — plus got to meet up with frequent volunteer and local reader Meredith, who has made various appearances over the years and had an absolutely ADORABLE palomino in the same jumping block. Spoiler for them — they had a great round and it was fun to watch!
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mare goes from 60-0 in 3.2sec. just don’t try for like, 60 to 45 — that’s impossible |
The way this event works is that they schedule time blocks for each height, with a fixed number of entries for each block. Riders are expected to arrive during their jump times, and obvi the whole thing is pretty casual and flexible (as evidenced by me just jumping in the earlier block last time). This time, tho, I was determined to be more patient and see the plan through.
So we arrived just in time for the last few rounds of the earlier class before they reset the height. This was a nice opportunity for Doozy to just chill in the environment, even as the atmosphere increased around her with more horses arriving and beginning their warm ups.
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“not the worst halt” |
Then, when I felt like it was time to start moving and the ring traffic level was favorable, we set off for our warm up. It also wasn’t perfect — but wasn’t far from our ‘normal good,’ tbh. Sure we were fast and rushing at times, but there was none of the inverted bolting to a deer leap like we had at St Augustine. Each warm up jump came up decently. So off we went for our full course!
I had walked the course upon first arriving and decided it was favorable for Doozy. Long bending lines, interesting short turns that weren’t hard but would keep us occupied, and plenty of room to just get out of Doozy’s face and let her find her balance.
helmet cam of our sj round. wasn’t perfect… but WAS completely devoid of the psycho crazy pants deer leaping we experienced at both SAPC + Thornridge. woot woot!
And that’s basically how it rode! I made a couple oopsies along the way — kinda needed too strong of a “whoa!” to jump 2 and got a scrubby distance as a result, tho she jumped it fine. An improvement would have been to use more bend instead of pulling to avoid shortening the neck so much.
I was also too ambitious in the long straight line from 3-4 after watching Martin Douzant take some giant gorgeous floaty WB thing down in eight strides… We ended up with a flat puke-y 8.5, whoops, I should have just asked her to wait more.
But, after that, it more or less kinda flowed together. And we had an interesting feeling — esp to jump 7 — where in the last few strides to each fence I actually did feel like I could soften a bit without Doozy accelerating past her distance. Good girl, that’s the feeling we’re after!
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“did i win????” — Ms Mondeuse |
Not gonna lie. I’m much happier to write about opportunities for improving overall performance in our outings, vs writing about only barely managing to get through it at all — as in our last couple events. And obvi, much MUCH happier to be at events at all, compared to this past winter of NQRness.
Here’s hoping for more (and better) to keep coming lol.
Omg I loved video so much. The coaching commentary was awesome. Like I always say: you can’t learn to do the thing without doing the thing.
ReplyDeleteAt our dressage shows I can always spot the eventers because their horses are so enthusiastically forward. It’s fun to watch because they seem to be enjoying it.
Ha, “enthusiastically forward” is definitely my favorite new way to describe how doozy approaches her dressage tests LOL! It’s hard not to get frustrated when she keeps slipping into canter at the least provocation, but it’s still just up to me to explain the rules to her in a way that doesn’t stifle that enthusiasm even as we, uh, *tone down* the forward haha
DeleteThis sounds like such a good outing to put in the books! I loved the coaching, and also that Doozy can legit just free walk like she's never cantered a step in her life 😂
ReplyDeleteOmg right ?? She has such a reliable free walk most of the time, like I can just chuck the reins at her…. Maybe one day she’ll figure out how to channel that soft fluidity in other gaits too???
DeleteThe commentary while video was excellent! And that walk Doozy 😍 to me the fact that she can soften like that means the rest of it will come with time. Congrats on a clear round too!
ReplyDeleteAgreed completely — she’s always had this crazy ability to just walk out loosely with a soft back when I chuck the reins at her, which seems like a pretty solid indicator that she’s just not really understanding what I’m trying to get her to do re: trotting in steady balance. We’ve made progress in that direction for sure, tho have maybe backslid a bit recently with changes in the approach to flatwork with the new coach. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the changing approaches, it’s just one of those things that can happen with a horse as sensitive as doozy ….
DeleteI am also impressed with Doozy's free walk. You don't expect that to happen after her obvious preference for canter.
ReplyDeleteI love that your trainer recorded herself during your test (and that she filmed for you!). That's a great tool to learn from. And also entertaining. Glad Doozy is settling back into show horse life! I'm excited for you guys!
lol i love the video too — and esp love that doozy is learning to cope again with the “do everything” lifestyle i want in a horse. interestingly, i think at this particular moment in time she benefits from venues where the earliest rides / warm ups happen in arenas (on footing or otherwise — just a tangibly demarcated space). something out the limbo of the wide open i think is challenging for her right now.
DeleteSounded and looked like the right sized outing for what you want to accomplish with your mare. Loved the trainer commentary too and who doesn't love ribbons??!! Another good learning experience in the books!
ReplyDeletethanks! ha not gonna lie, i’m 100% here for the ribbons LOL… and ya know, the memories and fulfillment and satisfaction and all that too, i guess … ;)
DeleteSounds like a successful outing and any blue ribbon is a good ribbon! I got a giggle out of the visual of Doozy trying to win dressage by doing the test in the fastest time. Adorable.
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